I prefer to ask myself if the commitment is supporting who I am and my dreams and intentions. Whether that be a new job opportunity, a night out with a friend, or the lifelong commitment of becoming a spouse. The truth is that each choice you make is an opportunity to move toward what you want or stay in the same place. Can you commit to your future? Can you commit to your dreams? Can you allow yourself to believe that you can achieve those dreams by taking small commitments each day to move your toward them?
I'm grateful to make commitments to myself every day. I'm grateful that within the relationship with my fiancé there are commitments to him and also commitments to myself and my dreams. I'm grateful these commitments coincide, giving me the confidence to get married. I'm grateful for all the possibilities that open themselves to me and allow me the practice of deciphering what is best and committing to the ones that support me. I'm grateful for all the lessons I have learned from my previous commitments. And I'm grateful for how each played a role in making me who I am today.
What commitments will you make to yourself today? May your day be blessed with opportunities and may your commitments come from the heart. Have a beautiful day!